Hi, all!  Life is getting better.  Everything is working out for the best!  Jeff and I are going to end up having the wedding the way that we want.  Simple, with just witnesses and soon!!  Everything works out for the best for them that trusts God.  I forgive the person that hurt me and wish her only the best.  I wish everyone that hurt me the best and only well wishes, no matter what happens.  I am taken care of spiritually and emotionally.  Things will be tight for a while, but nothing that I have not made it through before.  God always sends things to test and it always makes you stronger.

Hi, All!  I wanted to thank all of you for your concern.  I tried to post your comments, but somehow I lost them. :(  I was just venting last night over something that happened to me unexpectedly yesterday that has temporarily altered my life.  It is nothing any of you did.  Please have no worries about that.  I consider all of you friends.  The person I was alluding to knows who she is.  I will get through this and be stronger because of it.  I will not let anyone or anything bring me down.  I am at the best place in my life right now as far as my relationship with God, Jeff and Myself.  Failure is not an option for me and it never will be.  The harder you kick me the stronger I become.  Again, none of you all have done anything.  I am moving on to bigger and better things! lol  Monique

If people would just think about the reprecussions of their actions to people's lives before they act on something and research it thoroughy before making a judgement call a lot of heart ache would be saved.  Because of someone's lack of follow through and neglect of getting all of the facts, my life and livelihood has been dramatically altered.  Thanks!

Due to circumstances beyond my control, the wedding may be pushed up a couple months.  (No, I am not pregnant! lol)  What is everyone's advice?

I ask for all of your prayers at this time.  There has been an unexpected change in my life that has thrown me for a complete 180.  I know that positive will come from it, but it will require positivity on my part.  I believe I am strong enough to handle this bump in the road, but truth be told it will be challenging.  I have such a soft heart and want to believe that people are innately good, but I have been proven wrong so many times and this situation has just proven me wrong again.  I openly trust people immediately and have been burned and continue to be burned.  I don't want to have a hard heart, but it is so hard when people continue to prove to me that they can't be trusted.  It hurts.  Jeff has truly shown me the true meaning of unconditional love.  If you have never experienced unconditional love you don't understand.  I was always so sure that love would only be given to me under conditions.  Unfortunately, so many people probably know too well what I am talking about.  When you experience unconditional true love for the first time it is very hard to trust and accept, but let me tell you it is wonderful to have the love that you always gave unconditionally reciprocated.  If you have experienced it you are truly blessed.